As the episode transitions, intriguing questions about infidelity in marriage and its spiritual ramifications arise. This segment delves into Jesus’ teachings and the rationale for divorce following unfaithfulness, providing a nuanced look at justice, mercy, and the essence of true forgiveness. Later, listeners are guided through the process of choosing the right study Bible, emphasizing the importance of understanding biases in notes and translations. The episode wraps up with a discussion on post-mortem repentance, addressing the delicate subject of judgment and salvation after death, reminding believers of the significance of faith and scripture.
SPEAKER 1 :
Thank you.
SPEAKER 04 :
Good afternoon, and welcome to the Narrow Path radio broadcast. My name is Steve Gregg, and we’re live, as is generally the case on weekdays at this time. We have a live broadcast, an hour a day, commercial free, for you to call in and ask questions, if you have questions about the Bible or the Christian faith, or to call in to disagree with the host on virtually anything you may wish to disagree with the host about, We have, I’m looking at a few open lines right now. Sometimes that’s not the case, but it is now. If you want to call right now, this is a great time to get through. The number is 844-484-5737. That’s 844-484-5737. And there’s really nothing to detain us from going to the phones right now, except to remind you that there are a few lines open right now. This is a good time to call. If you hope to get through this hour, this would be a great time to call. We’re going to talk first of all to Tim calling from Santa Ana, California. Tim, welcome to The Narrow Path. Thanks for calling.
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, thanks for taking my call, Steve, and congratulations on the success of your program. Thank you. Okay. Yeah. So I’m going to challenge you today on your non-committal on the correct view of hell. I don’t believe that it’s really rocket science. And I think that you’re non-committal after writing two books on hell. I don’t think that there’s probably anybody in the body of Christ that knows more about hell than yourself. And I don’t think that the right view is so difficult to see and what the Bible is actually teaching. And what do you believe the right view is? Yeah, conditional immortality annihilation. It’s the only view that’s not massively flawed exegetically and philosophically.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, conditional immortality definitely has a strong case. Have you read either of my books? Of course, I only wrote one book. The second one has a new name, but it’s an update of the old book. So don’t ever buy my old book. Buy the new one if you’re going to buy a local one. But have you read it?
SPEAKER 07 :
I have your book.
SPEAKER 06 :
Have you read them? It was a good read for me at the time because I was stuck in one of the wrong views that really did me much damage. It undermined my ability to share the gospel.
SPEAKER 04 :
Yeah, I understand.
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, when you hold to, I did hold to eternal conscious torment for 25 years. Yeah, I did too, more than that. And I thought that’s what the Bible, I’m sorry, say that again?
SPEAKER 04 :
I did for longer than that, yeah, but I doubt it now, certainly doubt it.
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, well, I’m free of it, and knowing the truth about hell has been incredibly liberating and healing to my spiritual life.
SPEAKER 04 :
But are you aware of what the third view of hell is?
SPEAKER 06 :
I am. And I think it is massively flawed exegetically and philosophically.
SPEAKER 04 :
Okay. Well, I’m going to say that I agree with you about the traditional view. And I agree that the second view, the one you hold, has a very strong exegetical case. I believe the third view also has a strong exegetical case, which is the reason I’m noncommittal on it. So in this call, I’d particularly like to hear what you disagree with me about, namely what are the flaws in the third view.
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, great question. So I think there are certain statements, plain and clear statements in Scripture that make the universalist position impossible to be true. It’s just obviously excluded. Which ones? My first one would be that the Scriptures say, don’t be deceived, the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God. If that’s true, and it is true, then it’s impossible for the universalist position to be true.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, a person could be a very wicked person up until the day they die and convert, and then they would inherit the kingdom of God, right? Yes, if they… What if they repent after they’re dead?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yes, that I understand is to be impossible, because the scriptures say that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God. If you die in your sins and in your unbelief… Here’s my problem, Tim.
SPEAKER 04 :
What if I’m an unrighteous man right now, but before I die, I repent? Am I then also an unrighteous man and will not inherit the kingdom of God? Or is it only while I’m unrighteous that I disqualify? What if I grew up and became even an old man as an unrighteous man and then turned to Christ and became a true follower of Christ or a true believer with the fact that I am, let’s just say now, hypothetically, that I’m an unrighteous man now? Is that a guarantee that I won’t ever inherit the kingdom of God? Or does it just mean I won’t inherit the kingdom of God until I repent or unless I repent, correct?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yeah, I don’t think that there’s any, you know, good reason to believe that repentance will be granted after death. And I believe that the only people who will inherit the kingdom of God are blood-bought sinners. And although deathbed conversions are, I think, possible, we have the thief on the cross, I think that this is a tenuous place to be.
SPEAKER 04 :
Of course. I never recommend people becoming deathbed converts. But I’m curious because you said blood-bought sinners will be saved. Are you a Calvinist? Hello? Are you a Calvinist?
SPEAKER 06 :
No. No.
SPEAKER 04 :
Okay, so you believe that all people are blood-bought, correct?
SPEAKER 06 :
I think Calvinism is probably the most dangerous theology to hold as a Christian.
SPEAKER 04 :
I agree with you about this, too. So we agree about a lot of things. But are you saying there are some people that Jesus didn’t die for and are not blood-bought?
SPEAKER 06 :
No. Jesus died for everyone. But in order to guarantee your salvation, you must repent and believe the gospel and confess that Jesus Christ is the Lord.
SPEAKER 04 :
Right, but what I’m saying is that Jesus died for everybody. Not everybody repents in this lifetime. In fact, not everybody repents, you know, until maybe, let’s say, a year prior to their death. Of course, a person could repent even later than that, possibly, but you’re right. I mean, deathbed conversions are tenuous because, I mean, some people, everybody wants to pretend to repent on their deathbed, whether they are sincere or not, but Let’s face it, there are people who get saved, they hear the gospel, they love the Lord, they get saved late in life, and they die shortly after that. Okay, so they are blood-bought. But the reason they can be saved is not because they believe, but because they are blood-bought, because Jesus bought them. Now, of course, a person who rejects Christ’s gift cannot be saved, right? Even if he bought them, he’ll let them walk away. But at what point does he decide he won’t let them repent? And you’re saying at death, right?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yes, death is the finish line.
SPEAKER 04 :
Okay, and how do you know this?
SPEAKER 06 :
I’m just curious. You’re going to be destroyed.
SPEAKER 04 :
Right, so I’m curious to know, how do you know that it is?
SPEAKER 06 :
Well, there’s this verse that I just gave you. Which doesn’t say that. That the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God. That’s a clear statement.
SPEAKER 04 :
No, wait, wait, wait. I’m going to have to stop you there. We can’t go back to that one because I already refuted it. Paul said the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God. We both agree. But a person who repents is no longer unrighteous. I mean, that’s why we believe people can be saved. Everybody’s unrighteous until they repent. Now, you’re saying the last opportunity to repent is prior to death. I’m saying I don’t know that you’re wrong. It may be. But I certainly have nothing in the Bible to tell me that you’re right. So, in other words, how can you be sure that an unrighteous person could not repent after death and then be in the same condition you or I are in who have repented beforehand? Does God change? If God’s not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance, is there something that changes in his intentions when a person dies? He no longer cares whether they perish or not? He no longer wants them to come to repentance? Is that your position?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yes, it’s my position that if you die unsaved in this life, you remain unsaved. Right, but I’m looking for Scripture. I’m looking for Scripture for you. Steve, I would like to make some points now, too, if I may.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, first, I’d like you to make some points. I’m asking about first. I’m willing to hear your points. Listen, Tim, I’m willing to hear your points. I just want you to answer mine. How do you know that God, who doesn’t want anyone to perish and wants all people to repent, has set as an arbitrary deadline Human death, which happens to some people quite young, by the way, and others quite old. But God just says, whenever that happens to you, I no longer want you to repent. I no longer care if you perish or not. You’re saying that God’s attitude changes. Something in God’s heart changes when someone dies, apparently. Is that what you’re saying?
SPEAKER 06 :
No, I don’t think that God can change his character. God is the maximally perfect being. Okay, then he wants them saved even after they die.
SPEAKER 04 :
So then he has to love them even after they die, right, and want them saved because he can’t change his character.
SPEAKER 06 :
Right, I understand. His character is love. I would like to respond this way. The Bible says that we are saved by faith and through faith. If a person dies and they then see Jesus, they’re no longer saved by faith. God requires faith to be saved. They’re seeing Jesus.
SPEAKER 04 :
But wait, the apostles didn’t believe in Jesus’ resurrection until they saw him. So they didn’t have faith then? Jesus said to Thomas, you believe because you have seen. Blessed are those who, having not seen, still believe. So Jesus doesn’t say, if you’ve seen me, you can’t believe. He said, you actually believe because you have seen me. And this is Thomas, an apostle. And frankly, it was true of all the apostles, because all the apostles heard Sunday morning from the women that Jesus rose from the dead, and they didn’t believe them until Jesus appeared to them. And when they saw him, that’s when they believed. So you can’t really say that if you don’t believe until you see. then you don’t believe at all, can you?
SPEAKER 06 :
No, I believe you’re making a category error there, in that the disciples were alive at that point, and then they saw Jesus. So you believe after people are physically dead. You’re interrupting me, Steve. Yes, I am. you know, is required to repent and believe. Otherwise, you remain lost. And I just can’t see how… I have other objections to the universalist position, if you will. If everyone is going to be saved, which is what the universalist position holds, why did Jesus say that it would be better had Judas Iscariot not ever been born? If he was going to end up being saved and worshiping God in truth and in spirit… for the rest of eternity, how could Jesus make such an erroneous statement?
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, yeah, and I actually mention that in my book when I’m talking about the objections to the universal reconciliation view. I mentioned there are a few scriptures, that’s one of them, that are problematic for it. And every one of the views has a few scriptures that are problematic for it. And if you say, how can this be? What did Jesus mean? I can’t answer you that. I mean, that’s one reason I don’t know which view is true. Because all the views have problems with them. All of them have scriptures in their favor, and all of them have a few points at least, if not many, that are problematic for them. So, I mean, this is why you’re saying I shouldn’t be so noncommittal. I’m not going to commit myself to any position that I don’t have a rock-solid scriptural case for. And you said that I probably know about as much about hell as anybody. Probably I don’t. but I do know a lot about it having studied it for my book. I’ve read at least 8 to 10 or 12 books defending each of the positions before I wrote my own book on it. So, you know, it’s not like I’m an expert, but I certainly am not ignorant. I know what the arguments are, and I know what the problems are. So what I’m saying is my noncommittal positions, is based on my honesty. Now, you used to believe in the traditional eternal conscious torment, and you were very relieved to learn there’s another option, and that is conditional immortality, which is what some people would call annihilation. And that is a relief. It is a relief to know there’s another credible option. In fact, I would agree with you that the scriptural support for that view is stronger. than the support for the eternal conscious torment view. So it is, I can see how it’s a relief and it’s wonderful. All I’m saying is, I also know of a third view that also has a ton of scripture in its favor, and which, to my mind, we can’t just write off because there’s one or two verses that are problematic for it, because there are one or two verses that that are problematic for each of the positions. And so until I have a position that there are no objections possible to scripturally, I’m going to just say I’ll leave it for God to know. I can’t be sure if there’s, you know, I can’t go eeny, meeny, miny, moe. I like this one the best. But if there’s, I’m not going to change my mind to believe something I want to believe. If I wanted to believe that, you know, I would have been a universalist from my childhood because I’d love everyone to be saved, just like God would. God wants to be a universalist. The Bible says that. And what you’re saying is that something won’t let him. And all it would take for God to be a universalist and to realize that, I’m not saying he is. I’m just saying your arguments are not making this point very well. All it would take for God to save everybody, it seems to me, everyone that Jesus died for, is, and I believe Jesus died for everyone, is to continue dealing with them, not only for their lifetime, but longer if necessary, and bringing them to repentance. And your objection to universalism is that you say, well, people can’t be saved unless they believe in Christ. I think a universalist who’s an evangelical would say, correct. No one can be saved without believing in Christ. In this lifetime, let’s say a man lives to be 100 years old. He might get saved when he’s 4 years old. He might get saved when he’s 20 years old. He might get saved when he’s 70 years old. He might even get saved when he’s 99 years old. And if he lives on after death in some form, which some people would doubt is true, but let’s just say, since we don’t know otherwise biblically, then maybe he could repent afterward too. The question is, If God would save him at the moment before death because, what, God loves him? How much? Enough to die for him? Okay, that’s a lot. That’s a lot of love. Then the moment the guy dies, and let’s just say he didn’t choose to die. It wasn’t his choice to die. But suddenly the God who would have died for him and did die for him and loved him until the point of death just says, I changed my mind. I could give you more options, but why? Why bother? I’ll give you enough. That’s enough. you know, then that is saying that God does change. His love does change afterwards. You either have to say he didn’t really want to save them up until the point of death, you know, and therefore he doesn’t want to after death either, or you have to say that God, something in God changed when the man dies. And I can’t think, you know, if my children died, I have some children who aren’t in the faith, and I’ve had children who in the past were not on good terms with me. They are now, but… there was never a time when I, as a loving father, would not have wished to give my children as many chances as possible, even if they died alienated from me. If I were in God’s position, I’d keep giving them more chances because a father doesn’t give up on his children. And so, you know, all I’m saying is there’s a good scriptural case to make for conditional immortality, and there’s a good scriptural case to make for, you know, the universal reconciliation. There’s a slight case to be made for the traditional view, but I don’t think there’s much scripture on its side, and it doesn’t really reflect the character of God. So that’s why I’m noncommittal. I’m not saying you’re wrong. I’m just saying this is why I’m not as convinced as you are that we can just nail it down to one of those views, since I have studied all the views very well, and I’m apprised of the scriptural strength of each one. And also, I don’t know of any harm… in remaining undecided. This is something I’d be curious about, too. I mean, if I don’t have enough biblical evidence to choose between, you know, the options, what am I suffering? What am I suffering by not choosing? Should I make a choice without evidence?
SPEAKER 06 :
Yes, I think it’s, you may not be in my background, Steve, if you’re putting me on hold. I was.
SPEAKER 04 :
Okay, I would appreciate it.
SPEAKER 06 :
You’d appreciate it. Well, I wasn’t interrupting. You’re interrupting me a lot, but I wasn’t interrupting you.
SPEAKER 04 :
Okay, I’m going to interrupt you right now, too. You know, When you call my program, I give you a chance to make your point. I even ask you questions and give you a chance to answer the questions. I don’t give you the whole show. You’ve been on the show for 20 minutes now, and nobody else has been, though my lines are full. So don’t tell me how quickly I have to get through this call or how long I have to give you to talk. I try to be very, very generous with those who call to disagree with me. And you’re the first caller today. I’ve given you 20 minutes out of an hour show when there’s, you know, half a dozen more people waiting. So, you know, don’t scold me that I cut you off when you’re interrupting me and that I interrupt you. This is how conversations go if you’re going to get into something. This is why I wrote a whole book, because it takes more than 15 minutes of conversation to settle the question. And if you’re going to call and complain that it takes more than that, and that I shouldn’t answer you adequately and that I, you know, if I cut you off because you won’t stop and give me a chance, that I’m somehow doing the wrong thing. Well, you know, anyone who thinks that I shouldn’t run the program according to my instincts, you know, they can have their own program and they can run it according to theirs. But I need to get some other calls. And, you know, everything you’ve said, I’ve answered in my book, which you say you have. If you didn’t have my book or if I hadn’t written it, I would then see more reason to go over all these points. But I think that you’re I think you could read that book again and see some things again that apparently you haven’t processed completely. Thanks for your call. Holly in Pine Grove, California. Welcome to The Narrow Path. Thanks for calling.
SPEAKER 01 :
Hi, good morning, Steve. I’m a first-time caller and very new as in two or three days of listening to your videos. I have two questions. One is in Deuteronomy where it says that the life of the blood resides in the soul. And I know that that scripture is talking about sacrifices. My question is donating blood. I have… Hi, red blood cell counts, and my doctor wants me to go donate blood to lower that so that my blood will be healthier. And so I know that it’s talking about sacrifices. I’m just wondering how that might relate to us humans.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, yeah, the statement reads a little differently than you remembered it. It’s Leviticus 17.11. Oh, Leviticus, yeah. Yeah, Leviticus 17.11 says, For the life of the flesh is in the blood. And he says, I’ve given you the blood on the altar. But essentially your question doesn’t change, I don’t think. The life of an organism… the animal in this case that’s being sacrificed, but I think it’d be true probably in human organisms too, since God sees sanctity in the blood of humans and says anyone who sheds man’s blood, by man his blood should be shed. So I don’t think you’re off. I think you’re right that the blood is seen as the avenue or the conveyance or the essence even of life in the biological organisms. Now, by the way, the word soul is not found in there, so it doesn’t say the soul is in the blood. So it’s just talking about biological life and, of course, animal life, which we have no reason to believe the animals have souls like we do. Anyway, so all it’s saying is that biologically, the animals, and I would say humans too, no doubt, We could say their biological wife inheres in the bloodstream and the blood. Okay. Okay. So you’re saying what about donating blood?
SPEAKER 01 :
So like a part of my life or soul or whatever, life force is not going to be depleted as I donate blood to supposedly help rejuvenate the blood that I do already have.
SPEAKER 04 :
No. In fact, if you get a bad wound and lose a fair amount of blood, you haven’t lost any of your spiritual life.
SPEAKER 01 :
Okay. Thank you. The second question was on cremation. I want to be cremated. However, I’ve heard lots of different pastors say that you’re defiling the temple of the Holy Spirit. And, you know, in my opinion is because I don’t know enough scripture, but, you know, ashes to ashes, dust to dust. So do you have any thoughts on that scripturally?
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, you know, your body is a human body. is not by nature the temple of the Holy Spirit. A person becomes a part of the temple of God by becoming inhabited by the Holy Spirit. I mean, that’s why our bodies are said to be temple of the Holy Spirit, because he has come to live within us. When we were born, he wasn’t in us. This happens when you’re born again. This happens when you become a Christian. You receive the Holy Spirit, the Bible says, and then you are incorporated into that body, which collectively is seen as God’s temple where the Holy Spirit resides. Now, when you die. It says in James, the body without the spirit is dead. That’s the last verse of James chapter 2. As the body without the spirit is dead, so faith without works is dead also. So a dead body doesn’t have the spirit in it. That’s, I assume, the human spirit. And Paul said in Philippians 1 that he’s in a fairly miserable situation in a third world jail and he could wish to depart and be with the Lord, which is far better. In other words, he believes that when he dies, his spirit, I’m sure he means, would go to be with the Lord. But his body would be without the spirit and be dead by definition. Paul said in 2 Corinthians 5 that, you know, as long as we are alive in the flesh or present in the flesh, we are absent from the Lord. But he said we’re willing to be absent from the body. and present with the Lord, which is speaking of dying and going to be with the Lord. So it seems to me that when a body dies, neither the human spirit that lived in it nor the Holy Spirit that lived in it is there anymore. So I don’t see how there’s any sense in which that body would be called the temple of the Holy Spirit. Okay. Now, there are some people who think that cremation is a bad thing because they think it will somehow – inhibit or compromise God’s ability to raise our bodies on the last day, because the Bible teaches there will be a resurrection on the last day. But that doesn’t make much sense either, since almost all bodies, as you pointed out, you quoted ashes to ashes, dust to dust. Actually, the way God said it in chapter 3 of Genesis is to Adam, he said, dust you are, and to dust you’ll return. Now, that happens to everybody, whether they’re cremated or not. So I don’t really know how… the decomposition of a body into dust or ashes in any way would inhibit God resurrecting that body from the dead. And it’s a good thing, too, because every body that’s dead for very long before Jesus comes back will be, in fact, in that condition. And so he’ll have to raise dust into bodies again, just like he created the first man out of dust in Genesis chapter 2. All right.
SPEAKER 01 :
OK, thank you so much. And then my husband’s sitting here and he is desperately wanting to know near death experiences as a Christian.
SPEAKER 04 :
OK, I can say about near death experiences. We know nothing from the Bible about them. Lots of the research on near-death experiences has been done by people who aren’t Christians, don’t have a Christian worldview, and others have been done by Christians. And sometimes the results are seen as different. Sometimes they’re pretty much the same. All I can say is I don’t know the nature of these near-death experiences. I’m not really sure even the researchers can be sure about it. So I’m going to be noncommittal on that. I know some people don’t want to be noncommittal, but you’ve got to be when you don’t know what you’re talking about. And that’s one thing. that if I made a commitment on it, I would not know what to talk about. Okay, you’re listening to The Narrow Path. Our website is thenarrowpath.com. We have another half hour coming. Don’t go away. I’ll be gone for 30 seconds and be back.
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Welcome back to the Narrow Path radio broadcast. My name is Steve Gregg and we’re live for another half hour taking your calls. Right now our lines are full, so I won’t give out the number because you can’t get through at the moment. If we need to, we’ll give out the number again. And otherwise, just sit back, relax, listen, and call tomorrow if you have a question because we should be on the air then, as we have been every weekday for the past 29 years. All right. Let’s talk to Peter from Orlando. It says Orlando, California. I would have thought it was Florida. Hi, Peter. Welcome.
SPEAKER 03 :
Hi, Steve. First time caller. I appreciate what you do. And I apologize for that first caller. He was very combative.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, I think he found me annoying because I cut him off sometimes. Go ahead.
SPEAKER 03 :
But I’m curious what your stance is on infidelity in marriage. I know that a lot of Christians think that Jesus endorses divorce after infidelity. And I just, I’m curious how you square that with the entirety of every other example in the Bible where, you know, someone’s thrown at the feet of Jesus for infidelity and he says, he would out sin throw the first stone or When he says, you know, this sums up all the laws and all the prophets. Treat each other the way you want to be treated. And then if divorce was endorsed by Jesus, then Jesus also defines divorce or infidelity as even looking at another person lustfully. So I’m just curious what your stance is.
SPEAKER 04 :
Well, it’s a nuanced question. Obviously, infidelity begins in the heart and often manifests itself in physical adultery. Jesus makes it very clear that when infidelity exists in the heart, it’s not okay. Now, he doesn’t say that when it’s there alone that that’s grounds for divorce. In fact, he said if you look at a woman to lust after her, you’ve committed adultery in the heart. But then when he talked about grounds for divorce, he said, any man who divorces his wife except for the cause of fornication. Now, fornication, as far as I know, is always a physical act. Adultery in the heart is something going on in the heart, by definition. Fornication, as far as I know, is never known in Scripture other than as a sexual act. And virtually any kind of sexual act that’s outside of marriage could be called fornication. In the book of Jude, homosexuality is called fornication. It says that the Sodomites were guilty of fornication, going after strange flesh, it says. A man living incestuously with his father’s wife in 1 Corinthians 5.1 is referred to as committing fornication. In the Old Testament, when Israel is committing, as it were, virtual adultery, worshiping other gods instead of God, which God regards to be an adulterous cheating on him, that is referred to as fornication thereto. In other words, fornication is just a general word for bad sexual misconduct, which violates God’s standards. And if a woman or a man, I think, is committing fornication, that would be with somebody other than spouse in their marriage, This is what Jesus, I think, is referring to. Now, you raised a couple of interesting points. The woman taken in adultery, Jesus said, let him that is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her. I would think that would be very applicable, you know, if your wife has committed adultery. You know, frankly, even if you haven’t, even if you’re without sin, I would suggest don’t throw stones at her. I don’t know anyone that does that in this society. Muslim societies do that. But I don’t think in the free world that ever happens. To acknowledge that somebody has broken the covenant and is no longer in the covenant relationship that they entered at marriage is not the same thing as killing them. Although, frankly, I mean, it can be very hurtful if they’re innocent and they may wish they were dead. But, frankly, people usually get over it, and it’s not like murdering somebody. More than that, the story about the woman taken in adultery in John chapter 8 – It’s not actually in the original or oldest manuscripts of John. And there’s some question as to where it belongs. And some people might even think it’s not an authentic story. I think it is. So I’ll go with that. But, yeah, I won’t throw stones at anybody. Even if I were sinless, I wouldn’t throw stones at people. I’m not interested in killing people. That’s what he’s talking about. Now, as far as do unto others what you’d want done unto you, this doesn’t mean that criminal behavior – should never be penalized because criminals would rather not be penalized. A criminal would rather not go to jail, would rather not have to pay the fine, would rather not face the electric chair. Criminals, invariably, are going to be people who’d like something different than the criminal penalties that they have earned. When Jesus said, what you would that men should do to you, do that to them also. He’s not talking about criminal justice systems. He’s not talking about laws. He’s talking about behavior toward people that you encounter. If they’re hungry, feed them because you’d want to be fed if you’re hungry. If they’re naked, clothe them because you’d certainly want that. It doesn’t mean that if you’ve murdered somebody, You know you wouldn’t want to be hanged for it, and so you shouldn’t hang a murderer. That’s more like a criminal justice issue. Now, adultery in a marriage is also a criminal justice issue. It’s a breach of contract. There are victims. When a woman or a man commits adultery, they victimize their wife. They, in many respects, in many cases, are victimizing their children. They may be victimizing the person they’re having adultery with and maybe the spouse and children of that person. This is not just a private sin. This is a public sin. This is a public betrayal. This is a violation of another person. That makes it a criminal act. And therefore, when we have criminal acts, you know, love your neighbor as you love yourself, does not mean that you ignore criminal acts and that you do not punish them. That’s what God ordained governments for. And so the government that granted a marriage to somebody would also, if there were proper grounds, could righteously withdraw that. It’s a breach of contract. There’s lots of contracts besides marriage, and the government enforces contracts, or is supposed to. This is the ideal government. Our government isn’t ideal, but let’s face it, ideally. So, in other words, when Jesus said what you would have someone do to you, do that to them too, well… This isn’t the case. But if I had a wife who was faithful, but she wanted me to divorce her so she’d be free from me, that doesn’t mean I should do it. You know, there are things that people might want that are not the right thing to do. Now, what I think we should say is that we need to look at every human being as somebody with the same human rights and dignity that we have. And as we would not want our human rights or dignity violated by another, We should not for another person. On the other hand, if I go into my neighbor’s house and steal his television set, you might say, well, no one should prosecute me because actually those people wouldn’t want to be prosecuted if they did that. Well, that’s not necessarily true. A Christian wants justice. God wants justice. And if I commit a crime and somebody else is victimized, if I’ve got a decent heart, I want that to be rectified. That’s why there’s a thing in the Bible called restitution. A thief, when he is truly repentant, is to demonstrate it by giving back with interest the thing he stole. He might like to keep it, but let’s face it, justice is a higher priority. Actually, justice and love cannot be separated. Because if you’re going to do unto others what you want done to you, you certainly want others to be just toward you. And therefore, if you violate somebody else, you would want them or you’d at least accept the just penalty for what you did. Now, the Bible says that the just penalty for violating the covenant of marriage, which is done when somebody commits adultery against their spouse, the just penalty for that is that their spouse is free from the covenant. You want to be free from it? Then your spouse gets to be. It’s kind of justice. Now, on the other hand, you’re suggesting that Jesus, of course, advocates being merciful. I totally agree. I believe that while it would be a just thing for a man or woman to divorce their spouse who is unfaithful, it would be a very godly thing if they also wanted to be reconciled and wanted to forgive, wanted to show mercy and so forth. Of course, when marriages are in bad repair and when there’s that kind of violation and so forth, there’s always a lot of nuances. I mean, there’s the question of what’s best for the children. Generally speaking, for the couple to stay together, even if there’s been adultery, it’s generally better for the children to have their parents stay together. On the other hand, there might be a situation where somebody has… not only commit adultery, but they’re also beating the children and beating the wife, and they’re drunkards and violent and dangerous, in which case concern for the children’s safety might result in taking the option of divorce, not because of the beatings, because of the adultery, but the question of whether you say, well, I’m going to try to force us back together again because I’m merciful. Well, you gotta be merciful to more people than just that person you’re gonna be merciful to everyone involved. So there’s there’s nuances I’m not going to say when a person ought or ought not to get divorced. I will say this I was married when I was 19 years old I had a child by the time I was 20 and by the time I was 21 my wife had had two affairs my child was one year old and I and she and she was not behaving in any sense like a wife and I thought I Well, I have grounds for divorce here, but I wouldn’t do it. That was my choice. I could have gotten a divorce, but I don’t believe in divorce. I think divorce can be justified, but I believe that if there’s any possibility of not getting a divorce, and almost always there is such a possibility, that you should keep your wedding vows. To me, my integrity, my honesty, the fact that I made promises, is far more important to me than whether I have a happy marriage or not. Or whether I’m happy. Happiness is something that we’re not entitled to necessarily. It’s always great to have it as a perk in life. But the Bible doesn’t promise us a happy life or a happy marriage. It does promise us that God will be pleased and reward, ultimately, those who are faithful and who keep their promises and who are, you know, live out the things that Jesus said to live out. And staying with a difficult partner, even an unfaithful partner. You know, I would recommend everyone for whom there’s no other issues. And by other issues, I mean, you know, the person’s not dangerous to be with or some of those kinds of things. I would suggest this. Ask God to give you the grace to forgive. It’s a very hard thing. I know. It’s a very hard thing to forgive an unfaithful spouse. I’ve done it more than once. And not with my present marriage. Thankfully, I got the most wonderful wife in the world for the past 15 years. But I’ve had some other situations. So I know the temptations to divorce. And I certainly have thought through. and studied the teachings of Jesus on this, but it’s more nuanced than just say, well, you do unto others what you want done to you, so if you committed adultery, you’d want someone to forgive you. So forgive them. Well, that’s a good first line of response, I think. I really believe that’s a good first line of response. However, dealing with that kind of a complex issue, I think there’s often nuances, and you have to decide, okay, is forgiving them and just pretending like it didn’t happen, is that really going to make things better? If it would, then that’s what I should do. If it’s going to have other ramifications and consequences for other people and so forth, maybe I need to rethink what God would have me do in this situation. I need to pray about it, ask God for grace. But I am of the opinion that there are times, certainly, when actual divorce can be justified. I’m not one to recommend it, certainly. But if somebody does it, there are people that I cannot condemn for getting a divorce because they had the grounds Jesus talked about. Thanks for your call. Let’s talk to Mark in West Hartford, Connecticut. Mark, welcome.
SPEAKER 05 :
Hello, Steve. I just finished reading through the NIV Archaeological Study Bible, and before that I read the MacArthur New American Standard Study Bible, and way before that, because I’m a Catholic, actually the first Bible I read through was the Jerusalem Bible. The Jerusalem Bible, yeah. So my next step, yeah, which is what it is. I’ve read it, yeah. And so I want to hear a recommendation from you on the next study Bible I would like to read through. I was wondering should I do an ESV or a New King James or perhaps there’s another one that, you would suggest. Now, I understand that every study Bible has the opinion of the person or the group that basically… So there’s a biasness towards that. Let me clarify that.
SPEAKER 04 :
You might know this or you might not, but the ESV is a translation of the Bible. So is the NASB. So is the NIV and the King James Version, the New King James, and the Jerusalem Bible and the Douay Rhymes. These are all different translations of the Bible. In the case of the New Jerusalem Bible, they have study notes at the bottom page. And so also, study notes are sometimes, some publishers join study notes to each of these other translations. Now, the translations… ESV, NIV, NASB, KJV, NKJV, and so forth, and many others. They exist simply as standalone Bible texts, which you can read, and you can read as many as you want. They’re all going to teach pretty much the same thing. They’ll just say it in different words because different translators are trying to make it more accessible to readers or whatever than others have done. But they really all teach the same thing. There’s not really a contradiction between any of these translations. But the notes in them are what makes them a study Bible. You can buy NIV Bible, ESV Bible, New King James Bible, or whatever. But you can also buy NIV, what you had, something like an archaeological study Bible or something like that. Now, see, that’s going to have special notes put in there by Christian archaeologists to explain what they have found to confirm certain things in there. But… There’s also what they call apologetic study Bibles where someone has put notes in there bringing out the arguments in favor of the things that Christians believe that are found in the Bible. that the MacArthur Study Bible or many others are going to basically go through the whole Bible and give the, in this case, John MacArthur’s views on every passage. Now, John MacArthur’s views on those passages will not be the same as the views of the Catholics, nor of all Protestants, because there are Protestants who differ on some things with him. So when you get a study Bible, there’s two things to decide. What translation do I want? And then whose notes, if any, do I want in it? I myself have, I’m looking at my shelf now, I have an NIV study Bible, an ESV study Bible, I have a New Living Translation study Bible, I have the New King James study Bible, I have the Apologetic study Bible, I forget, I think that’s got the, I won’t worry about it. But I’ve got a lot of study Bibles. I don’t pull them off my shelf very often. I would pull them off the shelf when I’m looking for something you go to a commentary for. That is, I have all those versions on my shelf without any study notes, too, on another shelf. When I go to the Bible, I don’t go to a study Bible very often. I want to read the Bible itself. Now, it’s true, some translations of it. I prefer over others. I prefer a word-for-word translation. The New American Standard Bible is going to be pretty much a word-for-word translation. I think among Catholic Bibles, probably the Douay-Rheims is going to be the most word-for-word. I’m not positive if they have a better one than that or not. The King James is. The ESV pretty much is. But there’s other translations, and the New Jerusalem Bible is one of them. And the NIV is also one of them, and there are others, the New Living Translation, that are not word-for-word translations. They are paraphrases. I know I read the New Jerusalem Bible when I was, like, in my teens. It’s one of the first books. The first time I read through many of the books of the Bible, I was reading the New Jerusalem Translation. I thought it was very readable, very good to read. But it’s somewhat paraphrastic. So is the NIV. Now, I didn’t care for the notes in the New Jerusalem Bible, not because they were Catholic, because many of them weren’t specifically Catholic. But because they were somewhat liberal, they suggested that Moses was not the author of the first five books, for example, as Christians have always believed they were, and the Jews have always believed they were. The modern liberal scholarship rejects that, and so the New Jerusalem Bible, as I recall, took what they call the documentary hypothesis as a given. But most of the apostasy… What’s that?
SPEAKER 05 :
I agree with your views on that.
SPEAKER 04 :
Yeah. Well, the most Protestant study Bibles are going to be very similar to each other. And they’re going to be pretty conservative, generally speaking. Study Bibles are the ESV, the NIV, the New American Standard.
SPEAKER 05 :
Well, how about what you would recommend for the version? And then I can go from the version to the study.
SPEAKER 04 :
Sure. Well, I have good feelings about the NASB, which you already have. It’s not the one I use most of the time, but it’s a pretty much of a word-for-word version. I find it not as smooth reading as some others, but that’s partly due to its being very literal. I use the New King James probably more often than any other. The one I teach from is usually that, but I will consult others as well. I’ve got them all on my shelf, and I consult them. But, yeah, the New King James I have found to be pretty much word for word in its approach, and I like it. I don’t use a study Bible generally, but like I say, I have them on my shelf if I want to consult them like I would a commentary. Okay. Yeah. Well, I’ll tell you what. Because I use the New King James more often, there is a New King James study Bible or actually the Nelson study Bible. Thomas Nelson is the publisher of the New King James. The Nelson study Bible I found to be pretty good. I mean, I don’t. Again, I don’t trust any study Bible completely, because you’re right. The opinions in the notes are the opinions of the scholars who wrote the notes. And sometimes they’re right, and sometimes I think maybe not. But they’re usually pretty good.
SPEAKER 05 :
Okay, I have one more quick question. By the way, when I was finishing up the NIV, I had just started using your verse-by-verse teaching, and I would parallel it as I read through the end of it. So I’m looking forward to the next reading through the Bible, starting with your studies at the very beginning. It’s like a study Bible in itself when you do that.
SPEAKER 04 :
It’s like a commentary, audio commentary, verse by verse. Yeah, well, I would say if you want to follow along most smoothly with my lectures on it, those lectures I was using the New King James. And, you know, I’m not going to say that New King James is the best or the only good version, but it’s on the short list of the best ones, I think.
SPEAKER 05 :
Okay, my other quick question is, it has to do with when Christ was on the cross and he called John to take care of Mary. Yeah. Okay, and Mary having other sons, as we knew, with James and I believe it was Jude, why wouldn’t they take care of her or why wouldn’t she be in their care already in a sense?
SPEAKER 04 :
I think by default she would have been in their care. But we’re told in John chapter 7 that the brothers of Jesus didn’t believe in him. Now Mary did. but his brothers didn’t, until after he rose from the dead. So, I mean, it could have just waited a few days, but after he rose from the dead, Jesus appeared to his brother James, and in Acts chapter 1, while the 120 are waiting in the upper room for the Spirit to come, it says that the mother and brothers of Jesus were there too, and apparently the Spirit fell on them. So, it would appear that his brothers did become believers, and that really shortly after his death and resurrection, but The only answer I can give you is that because his brothers were not believers at that point when he died, he might have felt it would be better for her to be with a strong believer taking care of her. But that may not be the whole answer. I do not know the whole answer, but that’s what I’ve always assumed.
SPEAKER 05 :
Because if Joseph is no longer in the picture early on in his ministry… Well, the assumption would be that the other brothers and sisters, because they all met him at a spot. I understand that. Yeah, let’s say the brothers and sisters were outside.
SPEAKER 04 :
Yeah, I understand that.
SPEAKER 05 :
They were taking care of them previously.
SPEAKER 04 :
Right. And as I say, they became Christians, the brothers did, after the resurrection, but I don’t know the answer to your question. Joseph almost certainly was dead before Jesus began his ministry, because right from the beginning we find Mary and his brothers kind of traveling around with him before he started his public ministry. In John chapter 2, we find Mary and the brothers kind of traveling with Jesus from town to town. But no Joseph, you know, I mean, so almost certainly. And then, of course, since Jesus committed his mother to the care of John, It’s clear that Joseph was no longer there to take care of her, or else it would be superfluous. Yeah, I appreciate your call. I’m almost out of time. I’m going to take another call. Thanks for joining us. Ron in Indianapolis, Indiana. Welcome.
SPEAKER 08 :
Hi, Steve. God bless what you do. Steve, in relation to the caller, your first caller, is there a scripture that says, after the death, judgment?
SPEAKER 04 :
Yes. Yes, that’s Hebrews 9.27. It says it’s appointed unto man once to die, and after this the judgment. So many people have thought, and it’s possible that that caller thought, though he didn’t bring that scripture up, but many people think that that rules out the idea of post-mortem repentance. And post-mortem repentance, of course, is a feature of the view called universal reconciliation. Those who believe in universal reconciliation believe that when people have died, if they have not come to Christ, that Christ still wants them. He still wants them to come to him. God still wants them not to perish, but to come to repentance. And so God continues to allow them to in hell. I mean, once they’ve gone to hell, the idea is we know they go to hell. What happens there is very seldom spoken of in the Bible and not very clearly. So there’s three views of hell. One is that once they go to hell, which is the lake of fire, they’re tormented forever and ever and never expire. Another view is that they’re punished proportionate to their guilt, and then they do expire. They don’t exist anymore. And the third view is God will just keep working on them in hell until they actually come to genuine repentance, because he’s not willing that any should perish, but that all should come to repentance. And there’s nothing to stop him. from continuing to reach out to them. So this is the view. But some people say, but the Bible says it’s appointed man wants to die, but after this is the judgment. And they somehow think that this says something about the availability or non-availability of the opportunity to repent after death. No, when you die, the next thing to look forward to is the judgment. We read about the judgment at the end of Revelation 20, and we’re told at the end of that, some go into the new Jerusalem for eternity, and some go into the lake of fire. Okay, we agree with that. These people, after the judgment, they go into the lake of fire. The question is, what happens to them there? Do they ever repent? Do they burn up? What is that? And so the judgment simply means that they stand judgment. We’re not told what the sentence is. We’re not told what evidence is brought against them. We’re not told anything about that. We just said, we’re going to have to answer to God after we die, and then he’ll decide what’s right. And some think what’s right in God’s sight is to keep working on them. I’m out of time. Our website’s thenarrowpath.com. Thanks for joining us.
