Discover the difference between private and public prayer, and why the former holds significant power in a believer’s life. Charles Stanley explains how true prayer involves admiring God’s holiness and coming to Him with a pure heart. He warns against the dangers of meaningless repetitions and highlights the importance of praying with sincerity. This episode is a heartfelt call to embrace prayer as a means to develop a personal relationship with God, following a pattern that brings His presence into our daily lives.
Welcome to the InTouch Podcast with Charles Stanley for Wednesday, October 15th. Do you ever wonder if you are praying about the right things? Today you’ll discover a pattern for prayer that’s accurate and relevant every time. Here’s more in the series on learning to pray the Bible way.
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When you pray, what is the primary objective of your prayer? Is it to get something from God or Well, if that is, there’s nothing wrong with that because Jesus said, asking it shall be given you, seeking you shall find, knocking it shall be opened unto you. And all through the scriptures, we’re admonished to ask for our needs. But if that is the primary objective of your prayer, you’re missing something. Because from God’s point of view, the primary objective of our prayer should be fellowship and communion with the Father. But most people’s idea of praying is you just ask God for what you want and he’ll give it to you sooner or later. And if you live it right, you’ll surely get it. If you’re not, maybe you won’t. That’s not what praying is all about. But because many people sense that as a method of talking to God and they call it prayer and that’s the way they pray, their prayer after a while becomes ritualistic and sort of perfunctory. It’s something they sort of get through. After they’ve given their list, it’s in Jesus’ name, they’re on their way, not much time. And what happens is after a while it gets sort of dull. Because after a while also there are not many answers that come. And so if there are not many answers coming, and that’s what you’re primarily after, then why keep talking to a God who’s not answering your prayer? There is a prayer that millions of people have prayed that God will not answer. And there’s a reason for it. And I want you to turn to that prayer. It’s found in the Sermon on the Mount in Matthew chapter 6. You and I call it the Lord’s Prayer. It is a pattern prayer, and that’s the title of this message, A Pattern for Prayer. In Matthew chapter 6, beginning in verse 5 and reading through verse 15, it’s a prayer that many people have repeated and repeated and repeated for years and years and years, didn’t know what it meant, still don’t know what it means. and most of all have absolutely no right whatsoever to be praying the prayer. So let’s look at it, if you will, and see what God would say to us. As we’ve said in the very beginning, and this is part of a series on prayer, learning to pray the Bible way. And each of these times, we’ve taken a passage to find out what is God saying in that specific passage about prayer. So let’s look at this beginning in verse 5. And when you pray, you’re not to be as the hypocrites, for they love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners, in order to be seen by men. Truly, I say to you, they have their reward in full.” But you, when you pray, go into your inner room, and when you’ve shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will repay you. And when you’re praying, do not use meaningless repetitions as the Gentiles do, for they suppose that they will be heard for their many words. Therefore, do not be like them, for your Father knows what you have need of before you ask Him. Pray then in this way. Jesus says, now here’s the method. Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And do not lead us into temptation, but deliver us from evil. For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. And then he adds the following. For if you forgive men for their transgressions, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men, then your Father will not forgive your transgressions. Now I want to ask you a question that I’m going to ask you several times. And that’s simply this. How much time in any given day does God have you all to Himself… with your undivided attention, concentrating on Him and no one else. Well, my friend, no matter what you say about your prayer life, if you’re only giving God… A little bit of time in which you are making your request and you hurry up and get over that so you can get on with something more important. More than likely, you’re not really praying God’s way. That’s not communion. That’s issuing a list hurriedly, praying that the Father will reach into the storehouse, send you what you want, and you get on your way with what you think is important. In the eyes of God, more important than giving you what you want is time to fellowship with you. Because you see, it takes time to love and to be loved. And God’s objective in giving us prayer is giving us the privilege of expressing our feelings, our desires, our wants, our heartaches, our burdens, our sorrows, our cares. But likewise, thinking about Him, adoring Him, loving Him, worshiping Him. And the problem is that most folks’ idea of prayer is so juvenile and so infantile and so unbiblical. that thinking in terms of listening to God and speaking to God and fellowshipping with Him is totally foreign to their thinking. If praying is primarily communing with the Father, and we only give Him a few moments per week, then we don’t know anything about praying. Now here’s the problem. I could stand here all day and tell you, what it means to be quiet and to be alone by yourself with the Father, just listening, just loving Him, just letting Him love you in return, just telling Him what you feel and knowing that He’s listening and having Him speak to your spirit and assure you and encourage you or give you direction. I could go through all of that, but I want to tell you it won’t make one bit of difference until you give God the time and you allow Him to do that in your life. And when you do, nobody’s going to have to ask you to pray. Nobody’s going to have to beg you to spend time praying. You know what? You will make time to be with the Father. When did you ever rush into your bedroom or into your den and Take the phone off the hook. Isolate yourself from everybody else and just get on your face before God and just tell Him you just love Him and you’re grateful and you thank Him and you praise Him and you run out of words and you go over them again because you don’t know how to tell Him exactly how you really feel. Well, there’s a prayer lots of folks have repeated and repeated and repeated. In fact, millions of people have prayed this prayer or repeated it. Didn’t know what it meant. God never heard it the first time. And you and I call it the Lord’s Prayer. He says our prayers ought to be what? Listen. Verse 5. When you pray, you’re not to be as the hypocrites. They love to stand and pray in the synagogues and on the street corners in order to be seen by men. Truly I say to you, they have their reward in full. He says, first of all, when you come to God and pray, you should come in sincerity, never to show off, never to make an impression, not praying so other folks will hear us and maybe somehow say, wasn’t that a beautiful prayer? Doesn’t she pray well? Isn’t he good at praying? My friend, if that’s the reason we are praying, you know what God says? He says, whatever they say is all the reward you get in full. You just got paid, which means not going to do you a bit of good. He says, if you’re praying to be seen, you’ve had it. That’s all the rewards you’re going to get. Second thing he said, but when you pray, go into your inner room, and when you’ve shut your door, pray to your Father who is in secret, and your Father who sees in secret will repay you. Notice he says, the first fellow has his reward. He’s been seen by others. The person who prays in secret will be repaid. That is, God will honor, and God will answer that prayer. What is he referring to here? Simply this. And that is the times when you and I exclude ourselves from everyone else and we get alone to talk to the Father. All the public praying we’ll ever do will have no more effect than the private prayers we pray. The choicest way to pray is not in public where everybody can see you, where everybody can hear you. There’s nothing wrong with that. He’s not against public prayer. But our public prayers should probably be short. to the point, and certainly not arrayed in some kind of beautiful language in order to impress someone with our education, experience, our spirituality, our paucity. But rather, he says, the real key here… is what? In the privacy, the door shut, that’s where we can be spontaneous. That’s where we can feel liberty. That’s where the real you comes forth. And in the privacy of our own prayer room, whatever that may be, he says, in secret. Because the secret prayer is going to make the public prayer more effective. Then he says a third thing in verse 7, a third characteristic. When you pray, do not use meaningless repetitions. Now, the Lord’s Prayer, which is the pattern prayer, and the Lord’s Prayer in John 17 is probably the best Lord’s Prayer, the best explanation of that. But this is a pattern that Jesus gave. Now, you can repeat this. Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done on earth as it is in heaven. Every one of us can say the whole prayer in a matter of a split few seconds. Absolutely meaningless and can think of something else while we are praying it. We can be just as guilty as the unbeliever by simply quoting or repeating a prayer which we call praying when it’s meaningless to us. Don’t understand what it means? Not applying it to our life. And I want to show you, really the truth is it’s sort of dangerous to pray this way. And he says, don’t be like the heathens who pray with meaningless repetitions. And what they would do, they would just go on and on and on. Long, elaborate prayers trying to impress their God. It doesn’t mean that we will not pray the same thing over and over again. Jesus in the Garden of Gethsemane prayed, Father, if it be thy will. Three times he prayed the same prayer. There’s nothing wrong with saying the same thing in your request over and over again, if that’s what you feel. Nor is there anything wrong with a prayer that maybe someone else has written that you can honestly pray with them in sincerity. There are denominations that have prayer books, and you can pray that prayer. If you mean it, if you understand the meaning of the prayer, and you commit yourself to what you’re praying, that’s one thing. But if you’re just repeating some instruction that someone else has given you or somebody else’s prayers, it becomes the same meaningless jargon that Jesus talked about when He said, those pagans who pray to their gods trying to convince and persuade them, it’s meaningless repetition, and it amounts to absolutely zero. Don’t expect anything from God. Now… Then He gives us a prayer. He says to His disciples, here’s a pattern that you can go by. And this does not mean that this is the prayer that we are to pray all the time. This is the only prayer we are to pray. Because I want to explain this prayer. Well, that has three parts to it. And I want you to look here for a moment. It has three parts to it. The first part is in… Verse 9, when he says, Our Father which art in heaven, that’s sort of the doxology, or rather the invocation. And then comes the petition, beginning with, Hallowed be thy name. And then comes the doxology at the very end when he says, For thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen. A very short prayer, but… I want you to ask yourself this question. I want to explain it and I want you to ask yourself this question. Can I really pray that prayer? Some of you who are lost, you’ve never received Jesus Christ as your Savior. You don’t even go to church too much. You happen to be listening at this particular time and you’ve been repeating this prayer for years and you get in trouble and you get scared and finances go down and somebody gets sick. You want to call in some preacher or somebody. Or what do you do? You get on your knees, pray, Our Father, which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done. And you repeat that prayer. And the worse off the condition is, the more sincere you repeat the prayer. And I want to tell you, God never hears one word of it. You say, no, wait a minute. Jesus said we’d pray that prayer. And if I pray that prayer, you mean God isn’t listening? Not listening. Well, why did Jesus say to them, then pray then in this way if he’s not going to listen? Here’s the reason. Because he begins by saying, our Father. Listen, our Father who art in heaven. Who can say, our Father who art in heaven? Only those who have recognized Jehovah God as their Father. You say, well, but I do believe that God is God. Do you really? Well, listen to what His virgin-born, incarnate Son, His only beloved Son, Jesus Christ the Lord, Jesus Christ the Savior, Jesus Christ our life said. The one who said, if you’ve seen the Father, you’ve seen me. I am the Father of one. Listen to what He said. No man comes to the Father but by me. To those who believe in Him, to them give He the power to become the sons of God. The only person who can say our Father is one who is a child of God. You say, well, but all of us are children of God because God is the Creator. Everyone is a child of God in the fact that God is the Creator of all humanity. But until you can say spiritually, our Father… then my friend, that prayer is meaningless, and to repeat it is absolutely a waste of your time. And the only way you can say, Our Father, is first of all, to accept the gift of forgiveness provided by our Father, and that forgiveness is provided in His Son, Jesus Christ, who went to Calvary, sacrificed His life, laid down His life, placed upon himself the sin of all mankind so that every single person who is forgiven of their sin is forgiven by receiving Jesus Christ as their personal Savior. And Jesus said, if you’ve seen me, you’ve seen the Father. You cannot get to the Father and bypass the Son. Somebody said, I don’t believe all this stuff about Jesus, but I believe in God. No, you don’t. You may believe there is a God. You may believe in a God that you have configured in your mind. But until you believe in the God as revealed by the person of Jesus Christ, you are believing in a God but not the God who is Jehovah Elohim, Yahweh, the God of the Old Testament, the God of the New Testament, whose Son Jesus Christ is the only way to understand what God’s all about. Therefore, he limits this prayer in the very beginning to those who can honestly and sincerely say, my father who art in heaven. Now, when he said who art in heaven, that does not mean that God is geographically bound to heaven because you and I know that everything and every place and all things are in the presence of God. But God is seated on the other hand in the heavens at his throne. And he says, when you and I come to him, we are to approach him. Listen, our father who art in heaven. Then he says there are three things about the Father that you and I are to think about and to honor in our prayers. His name, His kingdom, and His will. Hallowed be Thy name. What that means is holy be the name of the Lord God. And the name of God represents all that God is. It represents all of His characteristics, all of His attributes, all of His actions. That is, the name of a person summarizes the totality of that person. So when a person says, hallowed be thy name, what you’re saying is, God, I recognize and honor you as holy God. If you’re an unbeliever, the reason you can’t pray that prayer is because you don’t recognize the holiness of God. You say, well, yeah, I do too. No, you don’t. If you acknowledge the holiness of God, you would fall upon your face in confession and repentance and cry out to him for mercy and forgiveness before God. It is either mere words or a confession and a declaration and a proclamation that you acknowledge and honor the holiness of God and that no sinfulness can stand in the presence of holy God. The very idea that a lost person can come to God and say, Our Father which art in heaven, hallowed be thy name, is a contradiction in terms. Listen, a person living in willful, known rebellion against God and rejecting his son does not honor the holiness of God because the holiness of God is to be found in his son, Jesus Christ. And any person who says to God the Father, I do believe that I can come to you and bypass your son is declaring, God the Father, your experience at Calvary by crucifying your own son was a tragic mistake. I can come to you without him and therefore what a terrible, horrible waste what is blasphemy against God. A person cannot say, Our Father who art in heaven, holy is thy name. I recognize your holiness and your righteousness. That means that whatever God says and does is right. And God says no man comes to the Father except through His Son, Jesus Christ. Jesus says, I came into the world that the lost in the world may be saved. I came to give my life a ransom for many. I was sent by the Father. I only do the things I see the Father do. For you to come to the Father… and bypass his son, ignore his son, rebel against his son, reject his son, spurn his son is blasphemy against God. I’m coming to you, God, but I don’t have to come through your son. What you’re saying is, God, you either made a mistake and you’re wrong. I’m coming anyway. No, you’re not. You may try to, but you won’t get that. You can pray all you want to pray, but I want to tell you, God isn’t going to answer that prayer. Because an unrighteous, unholy, listen, lost person who has rebelled against God is not recognizing the holiness of God. So that petition won’t work. But you’re not to come to Him acknowledging His holiness. And what does that do? When you and I kneel in the presence of God or stand in the presence of God or whatever it may be, in our heart, when you understand the holiness of God, there cannot be any pride. There can be no egotism. There can be no self-sufficiency. I’m not coming to God in control. I’m humbling myself before Holy God whose righteousness is absolutely supreme and sovereign above all the works of humanity.
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Thank you for listening to A Pattern for Prayer. If you’d like to know more about Charles Stanley or InTouch Ministries, stop by intouch.org. This podcast is a presentation of InTouch Ministries, Atlanta, Georgia.
Discover the difference between private and public prayer, and why the former holds significant power in a believer’s life. Charles Stanley explains how true prayer involves admiring God’s holiness and coming to Him with a pure heart. He warns against the dangers of meaningless repetitions and highlights the importance of praying with sincerity. This episode is a heartfelt call to embrace prayer as a means to develop a personal relationship with God, following a pattern that brings His presence into our daily lives.
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